John frequently spoke of the "new normal" in dealing with his cancer.
It could refer to the neuropathy in his fingers and toes, energy or
pain level, activity limitations, or just what he/we did as our daily
routine. We learned to constantly adapt to new normals. We had no
choice but to do so and to try to remain as positive as possible.
I continue that journey to my "new normal." I am trying to do so with
the same open and positive attitude that John and I found worked for us.
While John was in the hospital, we discovered how often people use the
phrase "You're fine." If you listen you'll hear it frequently in daily
conversation. In our new "hospital normal" we started to respond with
"We're not fine, but we're okay."
So many of you
have expressed your concern for me in my new journey. I continue to be
amazed by all of the expressions and acts of love and caring. I want
you to know that "I'm not fine, but I'm okay." Thanks for being there for me on my journey to my "new normal." Joyce
Wednesday, June 17, 2015
Monday, June 1, 2015
Preliminary Information
SWANK, John E., 68, of Piqua, died May
31, 2015. Son of the late Ross and Gladys (Guiller) Swank, he
was born January 17,
1947 and grew up near Lewisburg. John was a licensed professional
clinical counselor in Troy for nearly 30 years. From 1974 to 1984,
he served as pastor of Trinity Lutheran Church in Convoy. He is
survived by his wife of 45 years, Joyce (Braun) Swank of Piqua and
daughter, Erin Joy Swank (Mike Wymore), of Aurora, Colorado, along
with extended family and friends. A
memorial celebration will be held Wednesday, June 3, 6 pm, at
Nashville UCC Recreation Park. Donations may be made to Hospice of
Dayton or a charity of choice. John's journal of his 16-month battle
with colon cancer and details of the celebration of his life are
available at itwonthappenthatway.blogspot.com. (Here!)
We're going to write a longer detailed bio here [now online], but wanted to get this out for now. If you're available, we'd love to see you on Wednesday. We're planning an outdoor short celebration around 6 pm (no worries if you arrive later), followed by a picnic. Hot dogs, brats, beverages and homemade ice cream will be provided. If you are local, we ask you to bring a side dish or dessert to share, and a lawn chair. Will provide directions, etc, soon.
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