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This blog is about our journey with life while living with cancer. John was diagnosed with Stage 4 colon cancer in February 2014. And so we walk "Side by Side." The title of the blog has been a phrase that Joyce and I have used for the past several years. It has been our way to deal with the reality that most plans and most days don't happen the way we had pictured it in our mind. And it has been our way to learn to anticipate the unexpected.

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Friday, March 6, 2015

Health Update 03/05/2015 - 03/06/2015

Health Update
03/05/2015 - 03/06/2015


Guy Version (short and to the point)

  • PET Scan indicated growth of cancer in some areas
  • Decided to switch chemo type
  • Chemo delayed a week because of platelet count low last week
  • So chemo was 03/05/2015
  • New chemo is Camptosar. Stopped most other drugs, so chemo shorter by a couple of hours.
  • Diarrhea main new projected side effect
  • No longer getting chemo that causes cold sensitivity
  • Still getting pump for chemo at home for another 46 hrs.
  • Got a scooter donated to us (photos and story in blog)
  • Support continues to be amazing

The Gal Version (more details)

I have been feeling pretty good the last several weeks.

I was to have chemo on February 27, but postponed until 3/5/15 as my platelet count was low.

Results of PET Scan indicated that the present type of chemo was not working optimally. My CEA count was going up, not down (43). Had been in the low teens. It showed some cancer in the cecum. That was where the cancer started, but it had not shown on the previous CT Scan or PET Scan I did in May. There was also some cancer on my tailbone, but Dr. Joe Lavelle was not too concerned, as long as it was not painful. There were some new cancer in the liver.

Joyce asked , “What is the bottom line at this point?” Dr Joe said “You are much better off than you were a year ago.”

So the bottom line is that I am changing chemotherapy medication. Now going to Camptosar Dr. Joe was confident that the new med would manage the problem. Camptosar is made from plants, including vinca, the ground cover that overruns my front yard.

The main side effect that will be new is that it causes diarrhea. (My checking on the internet said that there was early onset and late onset diarrhea. Early is within the first 24 hours. Late onset is on day 11. We shall see.) Current note 3/6/2015: After the first 36 hours, diarrhea has not been a problem. A nice side effect to not have.

Prior to changing the chemo, my CEA count taken on 2/27 had dropped from 43 to 31.7. So that was good to hear it was in the right direction. (The goal is to get below 3 or so, but mine had been over 400 when I was diagnosed.)

Also, it is strange to not have cold sensitivity. I had forgotten what that was like. The first day or two after chemo I had been having very severe cold sensitivity. I can now drink cold water without wincing.

Cousins on mom's side (Wendell, Mike and Mona) a few weeks ago gave us an almost unused scooter that their step-mother had used only a few times. 


And then Joyce called on a friend who said to call him if we ever needed anything. Within an hour after Joyce's call, he was at our place looking at how to implement our idea. Since his specialty is welding, he designed and welded a mini slip-in cargo carrier that attaches to the seat post receiver. Then he mounted a collapsible plastic crate to it, so can we can go shopping with it. He had it completed and delivered within the week. (Thanks so much, Russ).   

The scooter is just over 60 pounds after battery, carrier and seat are removed. So Joyce and I can lift it into the back of the car fairly easily. Joyce warns everyone to stay out of my way!!!



So be careful telling Joyce to call if we need anything!!!


So many people been there for us in so many ways. In just the past week, Janice and Pat donated and delivered 16 cups of Dannon Activia Greek yogurt. Deb made an emergency run for drinks and orange sherbet as Joyce was under the weather with an intestinal bug. Paul, our neighbor, plowed our driveway before plowing his own. Jeff spent several hours identifying the exact part that needed to be ordered to repair a broken car door latch. Todd and Shelley included us in their family meal on short notice.

Others have called to provide emotional support to us. Joyce's cousin and sisters provide telephone support from California, Cleveland, South Carolina and Tennessee. And my brother, Dan, took me to the 2nd street Market in Dayton for French Crepes, and then to chemo as Joyce was still recuperating. And that is just part of one week's help! We are overwhelmed and so appreciative.

John and Joyce